Meeting new people on a resort

Meeting new people at a resort can feel a bit intimidating, especially if you're not naturally outgoing. But don’t worry — you're not alone! For many, making the first move to connect with strangers is easier said than done. If you're looking to expand your social circle and make the most of your resort stay, we’ve got some tips to help you break the ice and turn your vacation into a series of memorable connections.

1. Remember: Everyone’s There to Connect

First and foremost, remember this: The people you want to meet are probably just as eager to connect with you as you are with them. If they’ve chosen a resort over a private vacation rental, it’s likely because they enjoy the vibrant social atmosphere that resorts offer. Whether it’s the pool, the bar, or group excursions, a resort is designed to bring people together.

Don’t overthink it. Chances are, the other guests are also looking for ways to meet new people, especially if they’re traveling solo or in smaller groups. Embrace the opportunity to connect — it’s a big part of what makes resort vacations so unique!

2. Expand Your Social Circle (and Your Network)

One of the most underrated aspects of staying at a resort is the chance to meet people from all over the world. Resorts tend to attract a diverse crowd, and making these connections can not only enrich your travel experience but also help expand your personal and professional network.

The more you engage with people from different cultures and backgrounds, the more you’ll learn about life beyond your hometown — and who knows, you might even make some valuable connections that could impact your future, both personally and professionally. Expanding your network at a resort could potentially open up new career opportunities or friendships that last long after you’ve returned home.

3. Start with Fun, Not Formalities

One of the best ways to meet new people at a resort is to start by joining activities where everyone’s already in a social mood. Resort activities like poolside games, group excursions, or beach parties are great ways to ease into conversations. For example, we've had some great moments at the main pool, bonding over shots with people from cities like Houston, Dallas, New Jersey, New York, D.C., and even Canada!

The key is to approach people in a laid-back, friendly way. Don’t worry about overthinking your first interaction — it’s all about having fun and letting the conversation flow naturally. And remember, people are at the resort to unwind, so most are open to meeting others and striking up conversations.

4. Pro Tip: Make the First Move (with Confidence)

Sometimes, the best way to make new friends is to take the first step. Whether you're at the bar, by the pool, or in a group activity, making the initial move to introduce yourself can lead to unforgettable experiences. At one all-inclusive resort, we started a tradition by saying, “Get these people whatever they want to drink, and put it on my tab.” It was a great icebreaker — just make sure your resort offers all-inclusive drinks, or it might end up on your credit card!

This simple act of generosity can immediately create a fun, relaxed environment, and the people you meet will appreciate your gesture. It’s a great way to form bonds and elevate your resort stay from ordinary to extraordinary.

5. Smile and Keep It Chill

At the end of the day, the easiest way to connect with others at a resort is by approaching people with a positive, inviting attitude. Smile, be friendly, and approach others as if you’re genuinely excited to meet them. The key to a positive experience is ensuring your tone is open and warm — no one wants to feel like they’re being “sold” on a friendship.

People are there to have a good time, just like you. So, as long as you maintain a relaxed vibe, you’ll rarely run into a negative experience. Remember, everyone’s on vacation to relax and have fun — so make the most of it!

In Conclusion:

Resorts are the perfect setting for meeting new people and forming lasting memories. By approaching people with an open heart, a smile, and a willingness to engage, you’ll quickly find that making new friends is easier than you think. Whether you’re bonding over poolside cocktails, enjoying a shared excursion, or simply chatting at the bar, connecting with others can take your resort vacation to the next level.

So next time you're at a resort, embrace the social atmosphere, connect with new people, and let the good times roll. After all, you’re there for a good time, not a long time — make it count!